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Nakomiah from remembers this:
Well, I don't know If I should call this guy a boyfriend, it was a 6yr crush I had on him. I don't know if I was just too immature at the time I was with him, or what. We started to hang out but our relationship was a little hard to explain. We talked about things in the future but whenever he mentioned the future I wasn't included in it. He even stated when our kids meet oneday. Basically telling me that he will have his own family and I will have my own... Anyway, when we were seeing each other, there was a time when we were about to get intimate with each other, I turned him down because I felt he didn't love me, I just felt our relationship didn't have any meaning. I knew he was mysterious and I could never figure him out. 8yrs has past and I am already married. I have been married for 5yrs now. For the past 2 yrs this guy would appear in my dreams, but he isn't happy in my dreams. He is rejecting me over and over in my dreams. Different scenarios, basically places of my hometown. So I prayed to God to stop the recurring dreams. And for a little bit the dreams stopped. But now they are back, and hurtful as ever. Why is he constantly rejecting me?
If he is rejecting me over and over.what does it mean? I find these dreams haunting because at one time in my life I REALLY wanted him to be my first love. But the more I hanged around him it appeared as if he didn't really like me.
I put all of the effort in "whatever" we had. Why is he haunting me?
Replies from the dreamer:
You are right! I do fear rejection. I have dealt with rejection throughout my highschool days.
Then again a friend of mine said that maybe I am dreaming of him because the relationship had no closure. But that wouldn't matter anymore I am married. Why would my dreams betray me if that were the case.
(Added: 12/12/2011)
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Responses from the Dreamers
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From: ManAlive
Well that's frustrating. I think there's some truth to the idea that everyone in our dreams, no matter who they appear to be, is really some aspect of ourselves. Isnt it true that you dont really know how he felt when you were to together? You experienced rejection yes but he may not have rejected you. What you really experienced then was your own fear of rejection, the same fear that is dogging you in these dreams.
(Added: 12/11/2011)
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