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theblondebull from remembers this:
It's a VERY weird dream.... here goes the background first. I was dating this guy Wyatt and felt like I was MEANT to be with him. We rushed into things, which I regret doing, and in the end, it didn't work out. Thanks to me. :[ I wish I wouldv'e went about things differently. I just recently saw him with another girl. I wasn't necessarily jealous, but really pissed that he'd moved on so quickly, b/c I still have not. Now for the dreams I keep having about him.....
The first one was about how he worked at my work as a cook, which he doesn't, and his friend (which is also my ex in real life) comes out into the dining room saying that I need to give Wyatt his money, he really needs it for his truck. I told him to have Wyatt come out and get it himself. I was laughing though I remember. (I don't owe him any money though in real life.) And the dream ended...
The second one was this morning and woke me up immediately. It was about how he owned a donation center or something of the sort and I called up the center and told him I wanted to bring some things in to donate. He said okay, great, see ya when you get here (or something of the sort). Then my bestfriend, who really doesn't like Wyatt, pops in and we start filling up a VERY small box with, what I remember tortilla chips (I know VERY weird), then it switches scenes and I'm going pee in a bathroom w/ an overflowing bathtub. And I wake up after that.
As soon as I woke up this morning I wrote a letter to him and attached it to some paintings that I bought for him for christmas, but never got to give them to him b/c of the breakup. I drove over to his house expecting him to be at work, but he was at home, so I didn't stop. I went back home and debated what to do next. So I decided to call him and ask him if he wanted to come pick them up. He said yeah, if I wanted to give them to him. I said I did and he said he'd be over in about an hour. I sat here nervously waiting for him. When he finally did come over we sat and talked. He said he'd met a new girl and things couldn't be going better. I said I was happy, but I'm not. I'm upset. But now he said half of him wants to make up some excuse to break things off with her and try things again with me but the other half of him is telling him not to be a sucker. And he's never played such a big game of tug-of-war with himself before in his life.
What are my dreams trying to tell me?
What should I do??
I need some answers PLEASE
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Responses from the Dreamers
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From: just me
Ok I don't mean this in a bad way but are you a teenager or have you not really had that many boyfriends. It's was just that I got that impression on reading your dream. It's not a bad thing it's just that normally when you are younger you tend to get attached easier to things and it is harder for you to let go of something even though you know that you don't really want it. Hence you want to do something for him but are filling up and small box for his donation center. If you really had good feelings about him and you I think you would have continued to fill a big box or at least gone to the center in your dream instead of going to the bathroom and the bathtub over flowing. The other thing is this in the other dream you had you owed him money but didn't want to pay his friend you wanted him to come and get it but you were laughing about it. I don't know if it was a taunting laugh or a how silly laugh. A lot of times when we dream and a person doesn't show themselves it's either because we are nervouse about the meeting or we think that possibly they are trying to avoid us. I think what your dreams are ultimately trying to tell you is you need closure. Which you might have because of your discussion with him. Or possibly you might not have for the same reason. You need to think ok where were we going, where do I want to go, what did I not like, what did I like, and ultimately why did we break up and is something really different this time where if we did go back out it would be different? Don't get in a cycle because you don't know where to go get in a cycle because it's where you want to be. It seems he also has doubt about being with the girl he is with and or you. Don't be with him because he wants to be with you be with him because he is who you want to be with believe me it's much better that way. Sorry was so long winded.
(Added: 3/6/2008)
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